Well, as it turns out, the individual who resides in that crappy little abode is none other than my ex-fiance. Yep, that's right. The one who abused and manipulated me for 2 years until the only relief I could find was from a 40 caliber Smith & Wesson.
Needless to say, it was a rough evening. I, however, seem to have come out of this situation remarkably well. I think that I have now overcome a huge issue that has been holding me back from developing healthy feelings regarding relationships.